Well meaning friends and family simply may not have the same awareness as you, so what to do from here?
I have bad news and I have good news…
The bad news is that there is not one single candle, lotion, air freshener, body spritz, hand sanitizer, or fragranced product in general that I would feel comfortable suggesting. The toxicity risk is farrrrr too high!
Good news!! I just learned that they have THE cutest candle holders and I am obsessed!
You can use safe candle companies to fill the holder, and have a beautifully decorative & totally safe home fragrance enhancer this way!
My personal safe candle faves to acompany your new holders: